Saturday, January 8, 2011

SAFE SEX



SAFE SEX


Strategies for Safe Sex


The importance of safe sex strategies in family love matters cannot be ignored in effective marriage relationship. Too many men find it very difficult to abstain from sex. Even when they are married, they still have the cravings for extra marital sex, thereby creating a possibility of infecting their wives with sexually transmitted diseases contacted as a result of their marital unfaithfulness.  Ignoring the counsel of safe sex makes you and your partner exposed to attack.

Safe sex practices are also very effective for couples who want to stop making them-selves baby production factories. They desire some measures of family planning to ensure that babies are brought into the world when needed. They want to enjoy real intimacy without fear of bringing another child burden upon them. To such couples strategies for safe sex becomes very imperative.

To save you from future predicament, here are some basic strategies for safe sex:

Employ proper use of condom: Men and women should learn to use condoms properly. I know most men prefer body to body contact all the time, but if your man does not take pleasure in employing safe sex practices, as a woman, keep him on check. You cannot live your safety literally in the hands of a careless man. You must practice how to wear condom on a man if he is feeling reluctant or does not know how.

The under listed safety tips may be of great help to couples who take their sexual health seriously. Follow these tips when using a condom:

·        Do not use condom that is sticky or powdery when you open it.
·        Take care to squeeze the air out of the tip of the condom before use.
·        Do not use your finger nails when rolling the condom down the penis.
·        Only use water based lubrication- other tube like based Vaseline petroleum jelly and other massage oils will damage the latex, making it unsafe.
·        Check the expiry date of the condom.
·        Do not tear the condom open with your teeth; it contains some chemicals unhealthy for consumption.
·        After sex, hold the condom at the base of the penis and pull out.
·        Penetrate with care- do not be a rough rider when you wear condom.

Apply common Sense: Though common sense is not common, every couple should not be deficient in it if they truly desire to have a happy married life.

·        Trust your gut.
·        If you feel pressured reframe from it.
·        Condoms will not prevent you from genital waltz.
·        Do not have sex with people when you are not in the right frame of mind.
·        If you are not comfortable discussing protection, HIV prevention and birth control, you really should not feel comfortable enough to have sex.
·        Do not screw him if he does not wear a condom.
·        Do not be an idiot, be safe and be happy.

Have alternative to penetrative sex: Instead of sex, employ the safe sex strategies of kissing, petting, caressing and hugging. As a lady or a woman this will go a long way to reduce dramatically your chances of contacting diseases, it will increase your chances of having orgasm.

The practice of safe sex is fundamental if you must enjoy marital bliss. Those who take these important counsels for granted are paying with pain, frustration and humiliation to prove the falsity of their opinion. Why must you give your partner problems that can lead to his or her death when you can actually make her or him happy all the days that both of you will live on earth? Let your spouse be happy to live with you in true pleasurable marital experience. Practice safe sex and enjoy marital happiness and fulfillment.

To the success of your marriage!

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